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Physician and author Dr. Shanda McManus on losing her brother and what happens when we don’t let ourselves grieve.

Episode 84HealingGuest: Dr. Shanda McManus

Dr. Nicole reflects on the years she spent on autopilot in her marriage and career, and what it took to finally slow down.

Episode 83IdentitySolo episode

The co-founders of Sincerely Divorced on reframing divorce and rebuilding a life that actually fits who you are now.

Episode 82HealingGuest: Sincerely Divorced

Dr. Nicole on why she stayed in an emotionally abusive marriage for almost 30 years, and the patterns that keep women stuck.

Episode 81HealingSolo episode

Why so many high-achieving women struggle to accept help without feeling they have to repay it.

Episode 80IdentitySolo episode

Susan Brown of Women Who Rise on rebuilding after the sudden end of a 25-year marriage.

Episode 79FaithGuest: Susan Brown

A licensed psychotherapist on the difference between healing and staying frozen after divorce.

Episode 78HealingGuest: Danielle Boucree

Relationship coach D’Ionna Washington on rethinking healthy partnership and remarriage after divorce.

Episode 77RelationshipsGuest: D’Ionna Washington

Why so many women isolate after a divorce, and three steps back toward connection.

Episode 76CommunitySolo episode

Five things worth considering before stepping back into dating after divorce.

Episode 75RelationshipsSolo episode

The co-founder of Fresh Starts Registry on how her own divorce inspired a resource that helps people rebuild.

Episode 74IdentityGuest: Olivia Howell

A board-certified OB/GYN on redefining success after the life she planned fell apart.

Episode 73IdentityGuest: Dr. Sherita Gaskins-Tillett

A solo episode on trials, heartbreak, and holding onto faith when a breakthrough feels far away.

Episode 72FaithSolo episode

Dr. Nicole on discovering her husband’s infidelity and the compassion that met her in an unexpected place.

Episode 71HealingSolo episode

A dating and relationship expert on unlearning old patterns and choosing love intentionally the second time around.

Episode 70RelationshipsGuest: Bela Gandhi

Dr. Maiysha Clairborne on the emotional and practical realities of co-parenting after divorce.

Episode 69RelationshipsGuest: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

A policy consultant unpacks the legal and historical truth behind no-fault divorce.

Episode 68IdentityGuest: Sudria Twyman

The quiet internal journey — the stages of knowing — that happens long before a life-changing decision.

Episode 67IdentitySolo episode

On staying quiet to keep the peace, and the slow work of finding your voice again.

Episode 66IdentityGuest: Dr. Melba Mota

A realtor on how your home reflects your identity and healing during a next chapter.

Episode 65IdentityGuest: Kim Costa

Why constantly putting others first can lead to burnout and self-abandonment.

Episode 64HealingGuest: Dr. Jattu Senesie

A follow-up reflection on love bombing, trust, and the quiet, subtle ways emotional abuse shows up.

ReflectionsHealing

A master coach on the internal conflict behind indecision in relationships.

Episode 63RelationshipsGuest: Betsy Pake

A licensed therapist on love bombing, trauma bonds, and the patterns that trap people in toxic relationships.

Episode 62HealingGuest: Katherine Miura

On unlearning “good girl” conditioning and stepping into grown-woman energy after divorce.

Episode 61IdentityGuest: Siobhan Middleton

The Season 3 finale — shock, spiral, anger, grief, and the clarity that follows betrayal.

Episode 60HealingSeason 3 finale

A licensed counselor on why perfectionism makes divorce feel like failure, and how grace makes rebuilding possible.

Episode 59FaithGuest: Ashley Stancil

On the difference between dreams that expand us and dreams that quietly become bondage.

Episode 58FaithSolo episode

A “re-season” after a 23-year marriage — grief counseling, stillness, and starting over.

Episode 57HealingGuest: Tajala Battle

A wealth alignment coach on worthiness, scarcity, and learning to be a gracious receiver.

Episode 56IdentityGuest: Ta’Donna Nagle

Dr. Nicole’s daughters turn the tables and interview her about losing and finding herself in a long marriage.

Episode 55RelationshipsGuests: Diara & Danielle

A nurse-turned-entrepreneur on how two divorces became the spark for self-discovery.

Episode 54IdentityGuest: Deidra Kindred

A physician and advocate on finding purpose through workplace hardship, loss, and setbacks.

Episode 53HealingGuest: Dr. Stella Safo

On the overlooked middle season where faith is tested and growth quietly takes root.

Episode 52FaithSolo episode

An OB/GYN turned midlife strategist on leaving a thriving career and redefining her identity.

Episode 51IdentityGuest: Dr. Joy’El Ballard

An attorney and author on what 104 dates taught her about love, patience, and self-worth.

Episode 50RelationshipsGuest: Heidi Friedman

A life-transitions coach on how the loss of her husband became a catalyst for renewed purpose.

Episode 49FaithGuest: Paula Hollis

An emergency medicine physician on rebuilding through therapy, faith, and fitness after divorce.

Episode 48HealingGuest: Dr. Dianah Lake

Marking the show’s first birthday with five steps toward releasing the weight of the past.

Episode 47FaithSolo episode

A breast cancer survivor on faith, vulnerability, and finding purpose beyond diagnosis.

Episode 46FaithGuest: Lisa Satchell

A licensed therapist on the hidden cost of appearing strong while silently struggling.

Episode 45HealingGuest: Lynda Carmouche

A pediatrician and survivor on how abuse can hide behind success and the mask of strength.

Episode 44HealingGuest: Dr. Yameika Head

A family court strategist on protecting yourself financially, emotionally, and legally through divorce.

Episode 43HealingGuest: Alex Mack

The five C’s of divine preparation Dr. Nicole recognized on the way out of her marriage.

Episode 42FaithSolo episode

The Season 3 opener — on survival habits that once helped, and the ones that now keep us stuck.

Episode 41HealingGuest: Nakeia Homer

The Season 2 finale — on learning your own preferences again before you’re ready for anyone else’s.

Episode 40IdentitySeason 2 finale

A couple on saying “yes” again to partnership after both had been through divorce.

Episode 39RelationshipsGuests: Dr. Lisa & Tony Goudy

A brand photographer on how visual storytelling can help women reclaim confidence and identity.

Episode 38IdentityGuest: Jendayi Asha

On healing when the apology or explanation you’re waiting for never comes.

Episode 37FaithSolo episode

A breakthrough coach on leaving a 30-year marriage before turning 50.

Episode 36HealingGuest: Rhonda Gipson-Willis

A divorce recovery coach on healing your identity before opening your heart again.

Episode 35RelationshipsGuest: April Nowlin

On what it really means to start over when a picture-perfect life quietly falls apart.

Episode 34IdentityGuest: Nicole Bridges-Rhodes

A physician-turned-publisher on turning life’s hardest chapters into a written legacy.

Episode 33FaithGuest: Dr. Jasmine Zapata

Two physicians on hiding true feelings behind a perfect image, and choosing honesty instead.

Episode 32IdentityGuest: Dr. Allison Agwu

An author on how a 20-year marriage shaped her debut novel and her sense of self-worth.

Episode 31IdentityGuest: Netta Fei

A psychotherapist on rising into who you were always meant to be after a curveball.

Episode 30FaithGuest: Dr. Stem

Five lessons from Dr. Nicole’s own healing journey, from releasing plans to forgiveness.

Episode 29FaithSolo episode

A pastor and therapist on leading with love through hard seasons like divorce.

Episode 28FaithGuest: Rev. Vernon Ware

A family physician on the pressure to be the “perfect” Christian wife, and rediscovering her worth.

Episode 27HealingGuest: Dr. Marie Ramas

An author on losing herself in marriage and reclaiming her identity after divorce.

Episode 26IdentityGuest: Nefertiti Wade

What psychological safety looks like in a relationship, and how to trust what your body tells you.

Episode 25RelationshipsGuest: Dr. Maiysha Clairborne

The founder of Betrayal Trauma Recovery on hidden manipulation and reframing forgiveness.

Episode 24HealingGuest: Anne Blythe

Two high-achieving Christian women on the myths about marriage and divorce taught in church.

Episode 23FaithGuest: Dr. Oyebukola Oyediran

A certified divorce financial analyst on the paperwork and planning to do before an attorney.

Episode 22IdentityGuest: Catherine Calandra

A faith leader on how scripture is often misused to justify staying in a toxic marriage.

Episode 21FaithGuest: Patrick Weaver

The Season 1 finale — five lessons Dr. Nicole learned from her marriage and divorce.

Episode 20IdentitySeason 1 finale

A 40-year friendship on showing up for each other and speaking truth with love.

Episode 19CommunityGuest: Tonya

A writer and educator on surrender, boundaries, and staying rooted in joy after divorce.

Episode 18IdentityGuest: Latrice Rogers

A psychiatrist on redefining beliefs and reclaiming self-worth after loss.

Episode 17HealingGuest: Dr. Sharon Moore

A multi-generational conversation with three sisters on how their parents’ divorce shaped their own views on love.

Episode 16CommunityGuests: Adrienne, Deneen & Sudria

A retired pastor on the conflict between faith teachings and the reality of infidelity.

Episode 15FaithGuest: Rev. Beulah James

A family physician on the “superwoman complex” and learning to set boundaries.

Episode 14IdentityGuest: Dr. C. Nicole Swiner

A medical director on the courage it took to walk away from what felt familiar but unhealthy.

Episode 13HealingGuest: Dr. Toyin Nwafor

On how a marriage can quietly become something placed above faith itself.

Episode 12FaithSolo episode

A relationship coach on gaslighting, trauma bonds, and the cycle of emotional abuse.

Episode 11HealingGuest: Tiffany Denny

A trauma psychiatrist on how divorce reshapes the way we think about ourselves and others.

Episode 10HealingGuest: Dr. Alauna Curry

A pediatrician on enduring emotional abuse and choosing to leave for her children’s well-being.

Episode 9FaithGuest: Dr. Rhonique Shields

Dr. Nicole’s daughters share how their parents’ divorce changed their own views on love and trust.

Episode 8RelationshipsGuests: Diara & Danielle

Friends celebrate Dr. Nicole’s “Freedom Party” — not a divorce, but a bold new season.

Episode 7CommunityGuests: Dr. Maiysha & Dr. Terri

From early crushes to a 28-year marriage — what Dr. Nicole learned about giving and receiving love.

Episode 6IdentitySolo episode

A forgiveness coach on reclaiming peace by letting go of blame and resentment.

Episode 5HealingGuest: Brenda Reiss

A decades-long friendship on showing up for each other through divorce and beyond.

Episode 4CommunityGuest: Dr. Suleika Michel

A therapist and minister on surrendering outcomes and trusting a higher plan.

Episode 3FaithGuest: Melissa Brown

How a scarcity mindset, shaped by childhood, quietly governed Dr. Nicole’s marriage and sense of worth.

Episode 2IdentitySolo episode

Where it all began — why vulnerability is the starting point of healing, not the finish line.

Episode 1FaithSeries premiere

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